If we cannot have a genuine and honest relationship, I would rather have none at all.
Let's be honest: if we can't be honest with each other, what's the point? If I cannot say what I think to you and you cannot say what you think to me, then what are we doing saying anything at all to each other? Why are we speaking, when we have nothing to say?
Any relationship, be it amicable, romantic or familial, requires at the very minimum both time and energy, and often requires money as well. The point is, though a relationship is something intangible, there is not nothing at stake. This is not a selfish matter. I am not merely concerned with personal gain or loss, financial or otherwise. That has nothing to do with it. The point is merely, that although a relationship is intangible, it has a real world value. It matters. No matter what happens, we are both investing time, energy and even money in this intangible relationship-thing. And if we're not going to be real with each other, we're flushing all of that down the drain. And that is saying nothing of the emotional investment involved, regardless of the kind of relationship. There is a lot at stake, and if we're not going to be frank with one another, we're just fucking around.
And I have no time to fuck around.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
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Well said.
I never thought about it for long but today I was seeing netflicks--sabrina the teenage witch. In the show she dresses up for halloween and hwr boyfriend harvey come over. Then tgey shoot the scene when harvey gloats about how pretty sabrina is. Um well to get back to my point i remember you looking at me that way when we were dating. Now i ask myself? Was it real of fake. I know it was real. Like how did i ever hold so much power. Then now i think if you were able to see me that way how did i ever lose that power. I think its your fault bc you prayed that i would find a really rich man instead of being poor with you. What a horrid thing to say. I used to think it was poetic but its not. So yeah how does that fully enamored look equate to you saying its ok to let me go to someonw else .
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